I Remember being told I was too young to know what love was. And you know what’s so funny the Love I knew back when I was a Jit is the same love I know now!
I mean sure it’s a lot deeper, But I don’t believe Love comes with a Maturity stamp! I can recall transitioning from like to love and being in love. The people who was telling me I was too young to know what love was, majority of them was happily married can you believe it? Made me wonder if they was speaking from experience, could it be they married who they thought was the love of their lives?
I know that sometimes people say certain things because of the love they have for you, they know that the way people loved back then has changed over time. Fellas are no longer calling ladies Queens, Females are no longer treating their man as Kings. People are dating just for a status, as long as he got money, or as long as she’s Bad.
They know! So I know now when someone you love a family member or friend tells you something like that, it’s not because they don’t want to see you happy, in fact they just don’t want to see you hurt!
I found myself in this same position a few weeks back, where I wanted to tell someone that. I said, no you’re much too young, she’s too old! But that’s all I could say, and that to me wasn’t good enough!
But that’s all I had…
I know the young lady (who in my eyes now is not so young) is someone any guy would be extremely lucky to date, and marry someday. She’s kind, humble I can go on, overall she’s a great person!
I could only be honest and say how I feel at that very moment of finding out, I DIDN’T LIKE IT!
and you know what? I was entitle to that, I didn’t have to like it, there was no need for me to tell them what they wanted to hear, because they already know how they feel for each other!
And the way I feel now, doesn’t faze them because their heart desires each other! I been there, no one couldn’t tell me I didn’t love Jay back then, because their opinion and how they felt was foreign. I let them express their notion, and all that did was make me want my man even more!
When your heart desire, hearing NO will only drive your heart closer and closer to YES!
So the way I feel towards this particular relationship is not going to change, when my family, friends, or someone I’m close to get involved in it! Some people opinions and feelings changes daily, they think those shoes are outdated and ugly, but because Nicki Minaj wears it they buy it the next day… They think he’s not good enough for her, they find out he’s rich and wants them to get married….
My opinion remain the same, the way I feel is the way I feel! Do I dislike this young lady all of a sudden? Absolutely not! Do I feel like he’s making a mistake? How am I suppose to know? My heart didn’t make a mistake, one can only hope his heart is pumping all the right blood lol!
To close, when your heart desires, nothing anyone say or do should change the way you feel. If it does you might want to check the doctor something could be wrong with your ventricles. 😀
When your heart desires, it will be the best feeling ever! When your heart desires you should pray about it, although I don’t believe our hearts make mistake, I believe that the devil exist, Not everything that feels good is good for you.
Don’t get in your feelings about others opinion, we all have them, once you accept that it will not affect you!
When your heart Desires take some time apart and see how you feel.
When your heart desires don’t start changing and neglecting your family & friends, that will only leave a bad impression making the one you love harder to accept.
When your Heart Desires, get to know love because everyone loves differently!
I will love to hear about your love story, or when your heart desires, Nothing like a love story! like always subscribe, comment, and share!
Until Next Time!
