Baby daddy don’t want to help you take care of HIS child, Please tell me why in a world you keep calling his ass to come get his child! DO YOU SERIOUSLY TRUST HIM WITH YOUR BABY?! You damn near have to beg his no good behind to do right. What is it your motherly instincts haven’t kicked in yet? Are you still thinking about yourself? Not done partying? You want him to be a father or your man? What the sex was that good, you using his child as a way to come lay with you, when clearly having the child didn’t keep him around.
GIRL BYE!
Some mothers are confusing!
Some Baby mama’s be tripping!
I’m no single mom, and probably cant relate to some of the things you ladies go through, But Hunny some of yall have got to get it together!
I’m going to keep this subject brief because I don’t want some of you jumping on my throat trying to make me choke on my opinions.
I’m so sick of hearing:
He’s not doing this. He’s not doing that, but still want from him. Some grown women are in the position, where they can take care of their baby, someone else’s child, and themselves, but have me giving them a blank stare, shaking my head like … you got no life. Some people live for the drama and will never let it go.
Yes I’m aware you didn’t have the baby on your own and can use the help, or maybe you just don’t want your child growing up without a father. But wouldn’t it be better if your child knew the true definition of what daddy means?
Someone who don’t forget to pick him or her up on the weekend? Someone who’s not constantly arguing with mommy, a father who don’t show up for an hour just to take some pictures for Facebook or Instagram to caption spending time with my princess! When you’ve been gone for a month? I can go on… when you love your child you don’t need constant reminder to pick her up two days out of the week, (bet they don’t forget when it’s time to go back to mommy house) when you love your child you shouldn’t be o.k. with just seeing them twice or once a week.
Moms are always going to love their son’s and daughters a little harder, but a father needs to learn to love like a mom, to become a dad. (Quote for the fathers who have not yet received their dad Diploma)
I watched a female do malicious thing out of spite to a father, who actually wants to be a dad and love his baby dearly, and then turn around informing all her friends he’s the bad guy, all because he wants to move on.
She’s clearly a baby mama! (Whenever I hear those two words coming from a dude, the next word to follow is DRAMA)
I don’t like to use BABY MAMA,
That’s not who we are! So what ever you are going through with your EX who just so happen to be the father of your child, put all that to the side and focus solely on your sons or daughters. Do not use or make your child be the cause of your arguments. Do not blackmail a DAD or put them on child support, just to make yourself feel better.
Stop holding on to the past and focus on making a better future for your child/ren.
And lastly don’t trust or leave your child alone with a man who doesn’t want to step up and be a dad.
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