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I was reading this article this morning from the NBC news and you know me after I was done reading it I felt some type of way, so of course I had to write about it!

White Parents File Lawsuit For Receiving Black Donor Sperm

Same sex couple  are suing because they received the wrong vial from a black donor instead of white. I get it, they should be suing for the service, and after all it was a mistake that shouldn’t have happened at all! And sperm Banks needs to be on top of there game because this is something you’re giving to a family that’s going to affect the rest of their lives!

I get the reason why she’s suing, but I’m going to contradict myself in that same statement.

Why?

Well as I learned that the many reason why she’s filing the lawsuit. How her excitement for the pregnancy was quickly replaced with disappointment and fear. Traveling to get her daughters hair done in a black neighborhood because she lives in an all-white community and how some of her family are racially sensitive.

All that just made me feel like even after raising her daughter for two years she still feel some type of way about walking around with a black baby, I personally don’t feel like its not just her family who’s racially sensitive but maybe her and partner feel the same way.

spermtravelI mean come on now! We live in a world where same sex couple are now giving the right to marry and some people still having a hard time accepting the fact that it’s no longer just Adam an Eve. So you are telling me everyone in that community was okay with girls dating girls, guys with guys, same sexes with a new born baby, but will never be o.k. with your mix baby? (child boo)

Did you care what people think when you came out to your parents; did they accept you for you? Or did they want you out the community because they felt like you shamed them?

I mean sometime we as human should just stand up for what we believe in! This is your child! She has your blood running through her veins, you carried her for 9 months, and although majority of the 9 months might have been filled with disappointment you manage a bond with her right?

You’re worried about your intolerant town and how your OWN family will condemn her. And while I’m reading all of that I’m worried about whether or not she have accepted Payton as her blood after two years?

Her lawyer states that the mother needs enough money to leave the Intolerant town she lives in so that they can move to a diverse area with good school! That all I needed to know as to why the lawsuit was being filed.
1. Bad service (you did not get what you paid for) this is a permanent mistake that cant be fixed which requires changes in your life.
2. You need to move because you want to get the child you love out of this “intolerant” town so she wont be stigmatize!
· And then you could have went to say that you need a personal stylist for your daughters hair (since it’s oh so hard to learn)

If I read just that, I probably wouldn’t feel how I feel as I write this. However all that family stigmatize, town, blah blah, just make me feel like it’s deeper than that. What will you tell your daughter when she’s old enough to read this? (if you care) and omg if you don’t get compensated  will you keep her?  will you have hate in your heart for leaving your intolerant town? and if you win the lawsuit, will you truly be happy in the new town, or will you show antipathy towards your daughter for all these changes in your life you didn’t want to take place.

(I hope they doing this because they just want to get paid)

Same sex couples can’t make babies as a couple because you need a sperm of a man and a women’s egg, and here you are blessed with one,  who I’m sure is a beautiful healthy baby girl, and instead of being grateful, she make it seem like its something she purchased from the store and deep down inside she want to return, or exchange.

Who knows maybe that mistake wasn’t a mistake, maybe it’s to change your “intolerant town” and some of your family, if not yourself.

I shared my opinion now let me know what you guys think!