There’s no such thing as a perfect guy or girl, but there’s someone out there who’s perfect for you!
I wrote the previous post because yesterday was my man’s birthday. (Happy birthday my love!) I posted a picture of him on Facebook.
After I post it…
I stopped to think about what I went through, the person I was then, and who I’ve become. I kid you not I was laughing at myself, I did not care who was looking at me; I just enjoyed that little laugh.
I always wonder why I feel like I should end things on good terms with the people who hurt me. I wonder why I was so quick to forgive them. Don’t get me wrong I wasn’t quick to befriend them and sing hallelujah together. However, something in myself never allowed me to hold grudges or to have hate in my heart for someone who done me wrong. And whenever I’m wrong about something I don’t let my pride get in the way, I always been woman enough to apologize.
You’re probably wondering why am I saying this
Like damn Donna you going off topic again!
“nah ah boo boo I’m not, no apology needed!”
I always believed in the saying (everything happens for a reason)
And I also believe in (karma is a PEEP)
So lets not confuse the two shall we.
___Moving on___
I say all this because the people I was with then wasn’t meant for me, the friends who led me to believe a long-term friendship doesn’t exist, was in my life temporarily. The people who took my apology for bull spit, taught me we are all different. Those who continued to knock me down, was really cheering me on for success!
THEY WAS PLACED IN MY LIFE FOR A REASON
(Everything happens for a reason)
Because of them I know what love really is HE WAS MEANT FOR ME! And he’s all mine! I know how to appreciate and cherish every moment, talk through our problems because WE ARE TWO DIFFERENT PEOPLE who will be together in a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP that will last until the next life! Together we will SUCCEED!
To all the young girls out who suffer from a broken heart! I know it’s rough but it will get better! If that man was meant for you he would be with you, why you mad? If you need to cry, shed a tear and let it go, because while you’re hurting he out living his life, not worrying about you. Don’t let no dude have control over your life!
Sometimes a man acts a certain way, because he hasn’t reached that maturity level yet!
A lot of time we want them to change so much we give chances after chances and with constant nagging, we end up creating a fake boyfriend. When he can’t keep on the act he’s right back to his old ways. Like k-Michelle say, “Can’t raise a man” so Hunny, let that little boy grow up.
Don’t let that Bi**h Karma get in the way of your happiness. Holding so much hate in our heart makes it impossible for something good to come out of the situation you’re in!
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TO BE CONTINUE——-> next post: Baby Mama Be Tripping
