I’ve been a busy mom, with me working a full time job, and bringing my business to life, it can be a little overwhelming. I’m not spending enough time with my daughter and to be honest it discourages me a lot! She’s the reason I’m working so hard, but something gotta give!

It has officially comes down to sacrificing my job or my business, and the sucky part is my job is what’s helping me a lot with this business. On top of that, I can’t stop buying my daughter stuff! God forbid I pass by a baby section!

princessjjmyloveI love my Princess so damn much and I cant explain that to her, hail I cant even explain it to a grown man (her father), all I can do is show her. Being so far away for a long period of time I’m starting to feel as though somebody is wearing my shoes. Asking questions like, do she know I’m her mom, when I hold her will she cry for somebody else! That ish scares me!

I don’t regret a thing, but I will say this!

To all the young mothers who want to get to have a baby get your priorities straight first! Make sure you’re with the right person, and make sure both of you are ready to take on this big responsibility that will soon become challenging at times.

When I became a mom, I felt like I was reborn when I gave birth to my daughter my whole perspective in life changed!

It doesn’t matter if you grew up poor, or wealthy. You want to give your sons and daughters the world! You want to give them a better life then the one you’ve been living; you want them to have the things your parents could not afford to give you! I can go on!

And like I said before one of the hardest thing I had to do was leave my daughter after carrying her to full term!

It wasn’t to go to the store and buy her some diapers and wipes. It was to return to work so I can make sure she never goes with out diapers, and wipes and etc.

I don’t want you guys to get the idea that I’m alone in this, because her father is a man! He’s in her life, and mine.

I’m speaking on me being a mom! What (I) want for my baby and what (I’m) experiencing? And why young girls should wait!

Although her father is in her life and helping out greatly, that doesn’t mean I should sit back and let him do everything, as if I don’t have a life of my own! (Life don’t stop after you have a child) and we both aren’t quite financially stable to have one take care of two and him self! (Let’s add one more I equal two 😉 )

Life would be a lot easier and more enjoyable, if you have everything in order first! Stay in school, get a career, and make sure your partner is a man not a boy! He has a job, a REAL job! Check your maturity level, ask yourself questions as though you’re already a mom (you’ll be surprise by your answers)… and then one of the most important ask yourself, will you have enough time to spend with your child?

If my business was up and running before I had my daughter, I would not be working a full time job right now and things would have been a lot easier! But we can’t go back and I don’t want to! Therefore I’m forced to make strong decisions, Although I’m working harder, she motivates me to go out and embark upon life to make sure her future is bright! I’m impelled to not give up! She made me a better person and it’s my job as a parent to give her a better life!

Pregnancy is a beautiful thing, but lets not make it all about the beauty of it and the cute belly shots! Lets not have one to keep a man, because he’s going to leave you if wants, child or not! Don’t have one for a damn child support check you’re just going to use on yourself! And the most ratchet of all lets not have one to depend solely on the system for help! …

I always tell myself I’m going to keep it short and end up writing an essay… touchy subject…

Help yourself, so you can help you and your family in the future! Help yourself now so you don’t have to make too many sacrifices when your child is born! Help yourself, so you don’t end up wishing you had later on!

There are so much more reasons why you should wait on having a baby! I will love to hear yours!

caught-by-paparazziAs always comment and share, I’m certain this will help someone today! Also if you’re a mom, who can use extra diapers, wipes and etc feel free to sign up for our giveaways. P.L.L.&B monthly giveaways starts next month!